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Volume 2:2009

Issue 5: September-October

Table of Contents

  1. A Personal Note from Maria Mar: Feliz Dia de los Muertos/Happy Day of the Dead!

  2. Maria on the Spotlight

  3. A gift for you!

  4. Event Calendar

  5. What you are saying: "You are a genius!"

  6. LifeBytes: Your Relationships are your Greatest Treasure

  7. Feature Article: Are you a Toxic Magnet? (Self-assessment)

  8. Stories to inspire you: The man who drums without hands

  9. Today's Law of Attraction Daily Tip

  10. People helping people: Helping women break free from Domestic Violence

  11. Recent blog entries

  12. Ask the Dream Alchemist

  13. Where in the world is Maria Mar?

  14. Resources for you

Missed last issue? Read it here.

A note from Maria Mar

 

Hi beautiful sisters,

 

Maria Mar playing instruments for the cellular healing dance in "The Goddess' Vessel" by Corazon TierraHappy Day of the Dead! Click on the art to the right to participate in the Day of the Dead Contest.

Day of the Dead Contest

Guess (or not) and win free instructions to create your personal Altar for the Dead.

Question: What old bolero is this happy couple singing at their wedding?

Clue: It was sang by a famous couple of singers back when.

Click here to find out the answer and to "win" your instructions to create your personal Altar of the Dead. If nothing else, you will have a good laugh with the Muertitos on the page.

My August writing retreat got extended into a September spiritual retreat, which lead to a cleansing and healing October retreat!! That's why I have merged the September and October issues. On the other hand, nothing like a retreat to spring back, fully renewed and ready to roll! You will find the newsletter much improved!

In this feature article, I am sharing a self-assessment tool to find out if you are a Toxic Magnet. If you've been dealing with a lot of toxic people lately, check this out!

I'm making some improvements in this newsletter. I hope you like them. I've created three new sections. They are short, but sweet and powerful.

LifeBytes is an online version of my LifeBites: On Stage, where I help audiences shapeshift from problems to solutions quickly and gracefully. In this section, I offer a quick life lesson. If you want to know more, you can click on the link at the end of the short life lesson, and you will get more information or an exercise to help you implement the life lesson to your life. This issue's LifeByte is: Your relationships are your Greatest Treasure.

The second new section is Stories to Inspire You. In my life I meet a lot of inspiring people. When I mentioned the story about Dan Caro to my friends, they were so energized and uplifted that I decided that YOU too could probably used stories like this. Read more about the man who drums without hands and you will never again feel inadequate.

We need more good news. The media paints a world in which people are out for themselves, minorities are crooks and good people are victims of bad things. I am on a campaign to counter this sensationalist trance. People helping People features organizations and people who are helping people in our communities. As October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, in this issue we present the organization Safe Horizon, a leader in helping victims of domestic violence.

In New York for Fall? For those of you who speak Spanish and like poetry, Boricua College presents a Poetry Botánica's production: Rutas Esenciales, Julia y Lorca y sus herederos. Don't miss this magical, inspiring poetry soiree. I'll be reading from my upcoming poetry book and featuring a participatory installation, and Corazon will be dancing in home of Lorca and Julia.  Check our events.

Finally, check the section of Maria in the spotlight to enjoy a fascinating interview in which Tom Murasso, from Myths and Logic Radio Show interviews me. It ends in a meditation journey for self-love, and find out how you can obtain my newest gift to you.

This is my blessing for you today:

May you see your beauty in every rose, your power in every sunrise and your perfection in every child.

 

Light and Love,

Maria Mar

The Dream Alchemist

Need inspiration? Read today's daily tip.

Art by Maria Mar(c)2009. No reproduction, copy/paste or distribution allowed.

Maria on the Spotlight!

 

Maria Mar was featured this month in the following media:

 

Myth and Logic Radio Show

with host Tom Murasso

Topic: Bust your Manifestation Myth!

"Are your dreams and desires causing you pain, stress or frustration? Are you needlessly overworking to activate the Law of Attraction? You may need to Bust the Manifestation Myth that is keeping you from becoming your dream smoothly and joyfully, as God intended. In this show, you will discover how this Power Myth is the number one enemy of manifestation, inner peace, health and happiness. PBS-TV featured artist-shaman Maria Mar, our guest, will also reveal how this Manifestation Myth is the root cause of destruction in the predictions for 2012. Maria Mar, the Dream Alchemist, will also reveal how the Sacred Feminine ushers in an era of renewed balance to both, your personal life and our collective life. But Maria will do more than tell you. She will help you experience the alternative power that can quicken your manifestation while bringing inner peace, joy and health into your life and the life or our planet. Join us for an evening of magic, ceremony and joyful remembrance of the Sacred Feminine with artist-shaman Maria Mar." Click to here to hear the interview.

BONUS! At the end of the interview, Maria guides you through a relaxing, magical journey to experience self-love. Hear the Awakening the Alchemical Rose Meditation Journey and flow in the ecstasy of your perfection as a child of the Goddess Mother Creatress. Click here.

 

A Gift for You!

A Self-love Meditation Journey

Sometimes we are too busy to seize the opportunities that knock at our door. We say "later" and then we never get around to it.

If you have not checked out The Law of Attraction for Women (The Dream Kit) that I designed to help women tap into the Female Secrets of the Law of Attraction, this is the perfect time. Not only will you find out about some of your Female Advantages in the Law of Attraction just from reading the page, but you will get a gift!

I am giving you the perfect incentive to read about this Manifestation Home Study Course for women right now!

If you take 5 minutes now and read about the The Law of Attraction for Women (The Dream Kit), you will find a hidden gift on the page. You don't have to buy the kit to enjoy the gift. I don't want you to buy if you decide that it is not for you. But I do want you to give yourself this opportunity because it can take a load of stress from your shoulders and help you discover and dissolve the obstacles to your manifestation. Therefore, this is a pre-purchase bonus. You get it just for reading the page!

This is the bonus: I have packed the script for the powerful Awakening the Alchemical Rose Meditation, a self-love meditation journey, in a small ebook. Use this meditation once a day for a week, and watch your self-esteem, self-love and power of manifestation go up the scale!

The ebook is hidden in the page. Read and you'll find it.

Give yourself a chance, a gift and a mind-expanding break. Click here!

 

Event Calendar

November 9, 2009

Boricua College presents a Poetry Botánica production:

 

Rutas esenciales: Julia y Lorca y sus herederos

 

 

La Botánica Poética/The Poetry Botánica presents an extraordinary encounter among poets from Granada, Spain and Puerto Rican poets living in the United States and in the island of Puerto Rico. In a homage to Federico Garcia Lorca and Julia de Burgos, these poets will share their art. Enjoy poetry, theatre, dance, visual arts, wine and hors d'oeuvre. There will be books and art for sale.

 

Invited guest Poets:

Myrna Nieves, Maria Mar, Nancy Mercado, Magaly Quiñones (with Nélida Cortés in the guitar) and Pedro  Enríquez (Spain)

 

Homage/presentations by:

Yolanda López, Corazón Tierra, Carmen De Lucca and art exhibition by Maria Mar.

 

In Spanish.

 

Date:

Monday, November 9, 2009

Place:

Boricua College,

Brooklyn, Northside

Time:

5:30 PM

For more information and reservations, click here.

 

 

Feature Article: Are you a Toxic Magnet?

 

 Are you a Toxic Magnet?

Excerpt from the

Toxic Relationships: Love them, but Leave them (Self-help Kit)

By Maria Mar(c)2009

 

Are you an unwilling, unconscious magnet for toxic people? If you often find yourself dealing with toxic people or if the effects of toxic encounters affect you more and for a longer time than they affect others, then you may be a Toxic Magnet.

 

Just because you have a couple of toxic relationships that need addressing or because you know some toxic people does not mean that you are a Toxic Magnet. Toxic relationships are everywhere. No matter how healthy you are, you are bound to meet a couple of toxic people every month, at least. Whether you hook up with them or not is another matter.

 

But if you often suffer from the anxiety, emotional torture and negative drama that toxic people generate, then you may want to examine if you are a Toxic Magnet.

 

This mini self-assessment is an excerpt from Toxic Relationships: Love them, but LEAVE them, a digital Self-help Kit and Home Study Course that helps you understand, transform and release the toxic relationships in your life.

 

Establishing your Primary Emotional Pattern

Check any feelings that keep you hooked up in the Toxic Dance, trying to convince the other. Use the list below as a checklist.

 

SECTION A

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I keep thinking that I’ve done something wrong and keep trying to come up with another way of responding, but everything fails.

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 I feel guilty when I tell the person how I feel or when I set limits.

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I feel hurt and sad. I want to save the relationship. I want the person to tell me that she loves me and accept me as I am.

 

SECTION B

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 I want to win. I want her to apologize and accept that she is wrong. I keep bring up evidence and arguments, and I drag the whole thing on, but she won’t give in.

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 I feel trapped and frustrated. I can’t find a way to get a win-win solution. Everything I say is misinterpreted and I am at the end of my wit. I feel like a hamster in a treadmill.

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 I wrap myself in patience and try to address each complaint or difficult area in the relationship. But the complaints never seize and it’s frustrating.

 

SECTION C

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I feel that I am more mature and healthy than this person and should be able to address the situation in an effective way.

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I allow the person to rant and rave or do her acting out. I feel like a mother waiting for a kid to finish a tantrum.

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 I speak to her as to a child, softly and calmly. I listen attentively and then ask questions.

 

SECTION D

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I feel exhausted. I am drained of all energy. I feel heavy and unable to continue with this dynamic, and at the same time, I am scared of what she might do if I do not continue.

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My overwhelming feeling is fear. Fear that I may be fired, that I will be judged, that I will be exposed or hurt. I feel intimidated.

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 I can’t find my voice. I want to scream or confront the person, but I get a lump in my throat.
 

SECTION E

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I want to go away and avoid the whole thing because it causes too much anxiety. I don’t want to confront this person.

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I go away emotionally. I feel frozen or paralyzed or simply disappear and show up when it’s all over.

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I am shocked. I can’t believe it. It all becomes a blur.

 


Get the results here.

 

 Read more about the self-help kit.

There is a launching discount of $50 dollars for those who reserve now.

 

PRE-ORDER THIS PRODUCT NOW!

 

 

I just read your post "Love Them But Leave Them"--- I thought it was wonderful and a message that so many people need to hear.

Blessings,

 

Tania Tyler

www.secretgarden.mysticnaturals.com

 

 

Take two minutes to pre-order your kit now.

 

Copyright Maria Mar(c) 2009.

WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE OR WEB SITE? You can as long as you keep the above copyright, the bio below with working links, and notify Maria Mar at maria@shamansdance.com.

 

Maria Mar, the Dream Alchemist is an author, poet and inspirational speaker as well as a  life coach and spiritual teacher who inspires passionate woman to use creativity and conscious living in order to break through barriers and attract the life of their dreams. In Catch the Dream Express she reveals the female secrets and advantages in the Law of Attraction. This test is an excerpt from the Toxic Relationships: Love Them, but Leave Them (Self-help Kit). For more information visit: www.catchthedreamexpress.com

 

 

What you are saying

 

"Maria Mar is a Genius"

 

It's funny: whenever someone says or does something that I love, my remark is "You are a genius!" Suddenly, in the past months, I've been getting all these messages from you telling me that--- I'm a genius!!! Now it's proven: what you put out is what you get back!

 

Here's what you are saying:

"Does this help? This is everything I needed to understand and finally free myself! I had been working on this and reading this article helps me to deal with the little issues that were keeping me from  reclaiming my Power!
Thanks a million Maria Mar!!! You are a GENIOUS! Blessings and Blissings to You!"

 

Fabiola Sandoval

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"Maria, you are a genius! (And you confirmed my suspicions about myself---)"

 

 

Tanya Torres

Website: www.tanyatorres.com
Thoughts: http://hoy-artista.blogspot.com/

 

 

 

 

 

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"Maria Mar is a genius.  She knows how to speak in a way that makes your soul sit up straight and pay attention. No kidding!

 

After writing my blazing “Are You Swallowing Your Truth?” post, my dear friend Joyce from Lessons From Lyrics sent me a link to Maria’s recent post.  Since I felt the urge to share it with everyone I care about it, it was the logical choice to reblog it right here. Thank You for your inspirational teaching Kumu Maria Mar!"

 

 

 

Carrie Tucker  

http://www.heartfailuresolutions.com

 

 

 

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"Hello! I said it first! My teacher is a genius. On top of that, she is a Gemini genius. She's a woman orchestra. She's a whole staff packaged in one person. She tells me "I am going to empty my mind." An hour later she returns with a big smile and says: "When I quieted my mind, I got these brilliant ideas!" Then she proceeds to envision new products, events, solutions, systems, poems. So I want it on record. I said it first! I am blessed with a genius for a teacher, creative partner and business associate."

 

Corazon Tierra

http://www.notehagaspequena.com

http://cuerpoadentro.wordpress.com

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

Okay. It's official. I am genius. ):

I am grateful for the grace that channels my creations

from the infinite source of beauty

and for your eyes that see me with love.

 

 

 

 

Law of Attraction Daily Tips

 
TODAY'S TIP

 

I know it’s here, but I can’t find it!

 

DAILY TIPSDid you look twice, but could not find that important phone number or paper, in spite being sure that you placed it there? It probably is there.

 

Your fears and beliefs are delivered via Inner Enemies called Shadows. They confuse you, block the flow and create dissonance. What is happening is that you are experiencing dissonance between what you want and need and some inner belief or expectation that is “singing you backwards.”

 

For a tip to get rid of this nasty time wasting dissonance,

click here.

 

 

 

With one easy click you can now receive the Dream Alchemist's Daily Tips right in your email.click below

Subscribe to Dream Alchemist by Email

 

LifeBytes:

LifeByte #1

Your Relationships are your Greatest Treasure

We know that our relationships with family, friends and loved ones are our greatest gift, for there is no other gift greater than love. What few of us consider, however, is that  relationships are the Sacred Vehicle for  prosperity. The source for prosperity, of course, is God or Goddess, the Universal Consciousness in all creation. Prosperity is deeply connected to relationships because wealth is created as the result of an exchange between people.

 

Now that we are close to the Day of the Dead, it is a good time to examine the relationship patterns we inherit. Families have specific perceptions about "outsiders" and create unique contracts with the world. These are usually inherited untouched or lightly touched via generations. These inherited beliefs affect the way you respond to others.

 

What did you learn to expect from strangers? Do you expect others to value you, to remunerate you justly and joyfully, and to trust you? Or did you learn to expect betrayal, to be cheated or undervalued? Do you expect others to receive you or to reject you? Do you usually place more attention in rejections and miscommunications or in harmonious, loving exchanges? Carefully examine your expectations about relationships, and you will find the core of your issues with prosperity.

 

To obtain a journal writing exercise to heal the Sacred Vehicle of relationships in your path to prosperity, click here.

For more Prosperity resources, visit this blog post:

Prosperity or Poverty? Choose your Mirror

 

Stories to inspire you

The Man who Drums Without Hands

Dan Caro

http://www.dancaro.com

 

Dan Caro was born in Metairie, La. on November Sixteenth, 1979. At the age of two, an unthinkable event would change his life forever.

 

While in the family garage, the pilot light of a hot water heater ignited gasoline fumes and Dan sustained third degree burns to over seventy percent of his body.

 

Ultimately, as a result of the burn injuries, Dan lost his right hand, most of his left hand and is severely scarred. His new book, The Gift of Fire: How I made Adversity Work for Me, tells Dan story in his own words.

 

While this accident took away Dan's hands, ears, nose and most of his skin, it did not mark his spirit. Dan has been living life to the fullest in the face of his adversity. His relentless attitude and resiliency would consistently prove that nothing is impossible; including his lifelong dream of becoming a musician.

 

Dan, at the age of twelve, began drumming in spite of his loss of fingers. He plays by using the left thumb to grip one drum stick, with the other drum stick attached to his right wrist by a wrist band and rubber bands. With this simple device and an undying passion for music, Dan has become a very respected drummer in the New Orleans area. His unique personal style and musicianship has landed him countless gigs with some of the world’s greatest performers.

 

Dan is also an inspirational speaker and ambassador to the Shriner's Hopsital, where he was cared for during his childhood.  Read more.
                                                                                                      

People helping people

Helping Women Break Free

from Domestic Violence

 

 

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

We feel happy to honor and celebrate the work of Safe Horizon, a leader in helping victims of domestic violence.

Safe Horizon’s mission is to provide support, prevent violence, and promote justice for victims of crime and abuse, their families and communities.

"For over a quarter of a century Safe Horizon has been at the forefront of helping victims of crime and abuse through their crises. We are woven into the fabric of New York City, and we are here where and when you need us – in the courts, in your community and at the other end of a telephone at any hour of the day or night." Read more.

Lauren's Story
Lauren Left Her Batterer and Regained Her Life

By the time Lauren came to Safe Horizon, both her body and her spirit were beaten. Lauren had endured more than 20 years of a violent marriage, to a man who abused her physically, emotionally, psychologically, verbally, and financially. Read more about Lauren.
 

 

Recent blog entries

 

Prosperity or Poverty? Choose your Mirror

To Succeed you Must Hire Yourself: This is a FREE 6-months course to get out of your own way and generate prosperity. This blog is a response to a question from one of our subscribers.

 

Ask the Dream Alchemist

Have something you want to ask me? Curious about the Law of Attraction, how to use art and creativity for your personal transformation, how I can help you track down and defeat the Inner Enemies of your Success?



Just Ask!

Ask a Question Here
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Ask me your most pressing questions about how to manifest your dreams or live a better life. I will post the best monthly questions and my answers on my blog. I'll send you a notice, so that you can read it.

 

Private coaching with Maria Mar

Ready to burst out of your status quo? Want to take things up to your next level? Needing to face a crisis or get out of a rut? Curious on how to really apply those Law of Attraction principles to your life?

Let's work together privately. I am not only an artist and personal growth coach. I am a shaman, a spiritual healer who can see energy fields, connect to sound vibrations and see beyond ordinary sight. I can help you discover those nasty, stubborn voices that lurk under the surface and sabotage your success, dreams or relationships. I can help you see the signs that life is giving you. I am really good at seeing the allies and blessings hidden in what seems a crisis.

I'll get you to see and understand how you are currently creating your reality and break through those limits that keep you back. I can help you take a quantum leap. I am here for you and will help you lovingly and joyfully, with impeccable honesty but also with compassion and humor.

Through our powerful work together you will be able and ready to attract what you really want (better work, improved relationships, healthier body, enhanced prosperity - whatever it is that you want to live the quality of life you desire and deserve).

 

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About Maria Mar, the Dream Alchemist

 

Maria Mar is a new renaissance woman who has freed her vast creative potential and helps other women to free theirs. She is a published author, visual artist and life coach. She is a poet and inspirational speaker. She is also an internationally known shaman and spiritual teacher. As a dance-theatre performer, Maria has been featured in PBS, Channel 13 for her innovative work. She has also been featured in BronxNet television and numerous radio stations such as WBAI, WKCR (Columbia University Station), WADO (Spanish Radio), Brooklyn College Radio Station and La Nueva Onda 1190, among others.

 

Maria has brandished creativity and the arts as tools for life transformation and specializes in personal growth through the arts and freeing the creative process. She has now launched her Female Secrets in the Law of Attraction, contained in products, articles and events.

 

Maria has published half a dozen books, among them the Dream Kit (inspirational novel and workbook) and is the CEO of ShamansDance Publishing and Productions. Maria is available for engaging speaking presentations in which she uses dance-theatre and poetry as ceremonies of empowerment and to communicate the principles of female leadership. Read full biography.

 

 

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